The End of a Wonderful Adventure

Today is our last day in Korea. Neither one of us can believe how super fast it has gone. As with leaving any place, it is sad to say good-bye one last time to friends, favorite spots, and our home for the past year. We are eating our favorite meals one last time, taking one last walk in Olympic Park, and loading up on our favorite Korean snacks. We really enjoy Korean and will miss this beautiful country and all the wonderful people.

Here are a few other things we will miss about Korea:
-Seeing mountains on the way to work
-Tiny vans that have a frame much smaller than a car
-Being able to buy anything you need and only having to walk about 1 minute to get it
-Buying our fruit off the street
-Getting so many sides at a meal
-"Service" items (this means all the stuff they always give you that is free)
-Fun things taped onto your grocery items for free
-Loading into the subway like a can of sardines
-Face masks and "darth" ajima visors
-Getting the feeling that everyone is so generous, kind, and willing to help you
-Babies and children awake and playing in the park at 11:00 at night
-Bowing to everyone (that's going to be a hard habit to kick)
-Hearing "Teacher!" in a whinny voice all day long
-Being woken up on Saturday mornings by a blue truck with a loud speaker selling fruit, fish, or appliances
-Doing a lot of shopping in the subway

This is only a short list, and actually while I started in the morning we have had an insanely busy day and I'm not sure if it is finished. Tomorrow morning early, as our flights always seem to be, we will be traveling to Vietnam for a week before returning to the States. We'll have to post a thoughtful reflection of our time after we return. It is so sad to leave this place, but we also look forward to the adventures ahead.

Time Keeps on Slipping

We apologize for our lack of timely posts recently. Time is flying by here. Each week rushes past as our time in Korea grows shorter. We have been extremely busy this past month figuring out what our plans will be for when we return to the States. Through a path of surprising coincidences and events, that could be nothing less than God directing our future, we now have a plan. Matt will be attending Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in Northern Chicago. Eileen will be teaching at Child's Voice School, a private school for children who are deaf or hard of hearing and are learning to listen and talk. She will be teaching preschool. Now we are just trying to get all the little details settled to try and make the transition as smooth as possible (right...).

While we are excited to be returning to our families and a familiar culture, it seems that things are falling more and more into place here. Our friendships are becoming strengthened and we are realizing more and more the beauty that is all around us. There's not a good chance we'll ever live in a place again where we can walk home with a lush green park (think Central Park) on one side and huge, beautiful, green mountains rising up in the distance. Matt is finally enjoying kimchi in all its wonderful cabbageness. The cultural things that were once hard to get over have fallen into the pace of everyday life. We also used to feel this huge urge or need to get Western food on the weekends, and now we go out for Korean all the time. This is a wonderful, beautiful place full of the quirks that every place in the world has, and we enjoy it.

Besides plans for the next year, not too much else is new. We spent last Saturday morning at one of the palaces in Seoul, 경복궁(Gyeongbokgung), with our friend Mark taking pictures in our 한복 (hanbok which is traditional Korean clothing).

He did an amazing job and it was much like a wedding photo shoot with over 750 pictures. We also got a lot of pictures with school girls and other Asian tourists who thought we were quite a sight. It was a lot of fun.

Later that day we also got to experience the modern Korean wedding in all of its strangeness to the Western eye. When watching you would say that someone watched too many Western wedding movies when they came up this idea. We were unable to see the traditional Korean ceremony as I think only the family gets to see it. The weddings are held all day at a wedding hall, with a different one every hour. You just have to wait for your wedding to come up on the screen. There are lots of flashy lights and loud music (like pop music). During the ceremony they do things like cut a cake. They don't cut a piece out, nor is cake ever served. It is just sliced into with a sword of a knife, and that 's it. Also, one person is chosen to catch the bouquet which is thrown for a picture only. After the quick ceremony, you head to a meal. All guests from all the weddings eat together. We ate a very nice (though very Korean) buffet. We felt honored to be invited and it was a fun afternoon and cultural experience.

Posing with the bride and some wonderful co-workers and friends. (I look like a giant.)

At the buffet. And yes that is a baby octopus on that fork.

The Adventure Continues

Our lives here in Korea have been so busy it has been hard to update and so much has happened. We have less than 3 months and time is going so fast! An overview of some events that have happened recently:

Korean Hot Springs/Bath House

At the beginning of April, I (Eileen) traveled to a city near Seoul with three other great girls from work to have a Korean bath house experience. We had a great time checking out the town and the pottery that it is known for. The bath house was a fun, but new experience. As with most traditional bath houses, it is nude and separated by sex. It took us a little while to become comfortable but we had a good time trying all the different kinds of baths: herb, fruit, charcoal, herb, mud, hot, cold, etc. It was sooo relaxing and I wish that western culture was more comfortable with that kind of experience. I would definitely do it again.

Mountain Climbing
Laura, a friend from work, and I (Eileen) decided to climb Bukhansan, a mountain range just north of Seoul. She had climbed about 6 others and this was to be my first. It was quite a challenge for my first mountain. We trekked out with just about half of Seoul. (Mountain climbing is one of the favorite pastimes here as the whole country is basically mountains.)
It was beautiful as the weather was perfect, everything was turning green, and all of the cherry blossoms and azaleas were in full bloom. The top was quite scary and the climb strenuous, but the views were worth it. Korea is an absolutely beautiful country and has wonderful mountains. We also made a Korean friend at the top who shared with us his traditional rice wine. It seems pretty customary to bring alcohol up with you to enjoy at the top. We also got to visit a few temples that are along the mountain side where there a number of monks living.

Cherry Blossoms
These flowers are so beautiful and Seoul is full of them. We took a boat cruise down the Han River and landed on an island called Yeoido which is known for its cherry blossoms. While the flowers were beautiful, there was also thousands of other people there too which led to a bit of frustrating walk. However, we did get to visit Yeoido Full Gospel Church which is the biggest church, membership wise, in the world.

Buddha's Birthday
There is a huge celebration downtown for Buddha's birthday. We traveled to the Insadong area to make lotus lanterns, see the decorated temple, and participate in Korean culture. Later that night we watched the famous Lotus Lantern Parade. This is the equivalent of Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade but with lantern floats instead of balloons. It was the biggest parade any of us had been too. Since it takes place at night, the floats looked amazing. We have never seen so many lanterns.

Beijing, China
Just this past week we took a 5 day vacation to Beijing. We had a good time and were able to see all of the big sites. Apart from being scammed by a taxi driver when we first arrived, we met some great people and enjoyed our trip. We stayed in a small hotel that was set back in a traditional neighborhood that was less than a 10 minute walk to Tienanmen Square and the Forbidden City. The location couldn't have been better. The Forbidden City was quite impressive and expansive. We really enjoyed climbing the Great Wall. It is one place that neither of us thought we would ever see. Eileen really enjoyed the summer palace and thinks that we should move in. The food was nothing but amazing. We kept wondering why Korean food couldn't taste like that.
We also made some friends there and met people from all over the world. It is weird when you hear their stories and find them amazing only to realize that you yourself are living in Asia and are traveling throughout the world. Crazy. One friendship that we really enjoyed was with a Chinese man named David. We enjoyed a few nights sitting on his shop's front steps, listening, sharing stories, and enjoying our Chinese experience. He is a calligrapher and professor and made us some beautiful and personal calligraphy that we are sure to hang up in our home. If anyone is ever in Beijing we recommend that you go and meet David, for some good recommendations, an honest opinion, a good conversation, some beautiful calligraphy, or just to make a new friend. He runs a shop on the East side of the Forbidden City called Chinese Embroidery. If you take the small street that runs up the East side of the Forbidden City you will find a small shop on the left side of the road with a pink sign that comes as you get close to, but before, the East gate. His conversations might be one of the things that we remember the most from the trip.

From all of our experiences in China, we learned one thing: WE LOVE KOREA! You don't realize things like that until you can step out of it and view it from another angle. We didn't realize how developed, clean, and friendly Korea is, and how comfortable we feel here. It is nice to hear a language that you at least know a little of and can read. Koreans also put English on a lot more things that we realized, which is super helpful. In China we felt like everyone viewed us as money and we always had to be wary that someone was trying to get our money or sell us something. I'm sure this is related to it being a touristy city, and I'm sure that not all of China is like that, but you don't really get that in Seoul. We are never worried about being ripped off here. There are so many little things that we appreciate a lot more now that we are back. China has a lot of well known sights, but it was surprising to us that almost everything was rebuilt. Hardly anything ancient was still standing. Also, there were hardly any cultural artifacts as most had been destroyed. Korea has many ancient palaces and temples that have been well taken care of and many pieces of their history still intact. We wish more people around the world took an interest in Korean culture. This place really feels like home much more than we had realized (though we still love and miss America). There was such a comfort coming back to Seoul. 우리는 한국을 사랑한다!

Is it spring yet??

There is not too much new in the life of the Brankatelli's. This is mostly a post to for the sake of a post to say that we are alive and well. The weeks are just flying by! We have been here for almost 8 months and have less than 4 left. School is keeping us busy but we are enjoying that we have fallen into the pace of life here. We are desperately waiting for it to get warm. We are tired of wearing winter coats and spring keeps feeling like it is just around the corner. The trees all have buds and the dogwoods and cherry blossoms are all abloom.

We had an interesting experience a couple of nights ago when we went to a cafe and were able to experience Dr. Fish. This is where you put your feet and legs into a tank of water with tons of these little fish that come and eat off all the dead skin and bad stuff off your legs. Eileen laughed hysterically for the first couple of minutes. (It might be one of the most ticklish experiences ever). Matt did not enjoy the fish and found them too ticklish although he enjoyed having his hands and heels bitten. It is a pretty funny feeling with all their little mouths biting at your feet and legs. We were able to go with some of the of the Korean and foreign staff, and had a great time overall.

A New School Year

Sorry it has been so long since we have posted. February and the beginning of March have been quite busy. We have been finishing up one school year and beginning a new one at the start of March. It was a little sad to see some of our classes go, but exciting to get new students. It was strange how Matt's students were in kindergarten on Friday, going to school from 9:30 - 1:30. And on Monday they began going to their Korean Elementary schools and then coming to our program in the afternoons. They are so tired! It is a much longer day. Here is a picture of Matt and his graduating preschoolers. Below that is a picture of the parents at graduation. The cultural expectations for an audience here are very, very different than at home.
Eileen's preschoolers are all still around in kindergarten and Matt teachers some of them. Eileen has whole new classes of students who don't speak English...well a few speak English.
Eileen's perspective:
Since we are an immersion program, there is no Korean spoke in the classrooms. However, this is super hard to convey to a small child who doesn't speak English. In my homeroom, the students are starting to recognize that they need to speak English, however, when they really want to talk to their friends or tell someone something they go straight to Korean. My co-kindergarten class is a whole other story. I think it is the class that speaks Korean the most. I have a handful of students who speak Korean all the time and still haven't figured out that I don't speak it. I feel bad when I can tell they are trying to tell me something and I just have no clue or have to guess how to handle it from the context. It is also a very rowdy class, though I'm not sure if that corresponds with their lower English abilities. However, even within the first two weeks they are already gaining some language.
Another interesting story from this week: I have a student who is colorblind. As we have been focusing on colors this week (poor kid) I noticed that he had colored the green picture brown and that all his pictures look like trippy psychedelic worlds as may of the colors are off. My Korean teacher and I tested him and found that yes he is indeed colorblind. It is interesting trying to tell him he is using the wrong color and this color is in fact green, especially when he has very few English words. Since his biggest trouble comes with brown and green, it is a little funny to see pictures full of trees, flowers, and grass that all look dead.

We are enjoying a shorter schedule at work and are excited to see the sun on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Now we are just waiting for it to warm up!

One last cultural experience that has occurred in the past month or so, is our purchasing of hanbok. Hanbok is traditional Korean clothing. Eileen has gotten the skirt and top tailor made (as she is bigger than the "maximum" size) as a birthday present, along with shoes and an ayam, or traditional head covering. We plan on taking our clothes out this spring and taking pictures at the some of the Seoul palaces.

Hooray for Korean Health Care!

While things like groceries and gas may cost a small fortune here, health care does not! We have heard stories about how much one can end up paying for health care in America and have been through many annoying insurance issues that go along with trying to get anything covered. This past week I, Eileen, walked into an orthopedic surgeon here in Seoul for a wrist that was hurt snowboarding and just won't heal. First of all this guy is in a nice area and treats all of the famous baseball players in Korea. (Baseball is HUGE here.) He has signed jersey's and pictures, coffee tables full of signed baseballs, and pictures with famous Koreans. I was able to get in to see him, get X-rays of my wrist, and get a half hour of physical therapy for...(drum roll please...) 7, 700 won. When I convert that it is about $5.57. The next day I went back for physical therapy and it cost about $1.60. Amazing! He, and some of his staff, even spoke English. Just wanted to share one of the little perks we have found about living in Korea.

Here are some videos that go with our last post. The first one is a video which perhaps might only be funny to us. We found this weird underground entertainment/mall place and there were these creepy animals you could ride. Matt paid for a ride. Notice how people either stare or pretend not to notice the white man on the large cat that is in their way.


These next two videos are of traditional Korean dancing called pungmul. Most of the dancers are playing a drum or some other percussion instrument. There is also one performer in the back playing some sort of horn. They are wearing hats called . This was a dance that originated in the rural countryside.





This is a video of a tightrope walker who was performing with the dancers in the video above. He went back and forth many times and had no net or spotter. Many times he would dance and jump as he went across.